7 habits of highly effective teens
Habit 4
4. Think win-win
Teens can learn to foster the belief that it
is possible to create an atmosphere of win-win in every relationship. This habit
encourages the idea that in any given discussion or situation both parties can
arrive at a mutually beneficial solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the
accomplishments of others instead of being threatened by them. Win-win is a
belief that everyone can win. It’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t step
on you, but I won’t be your doormat either. You care about other people and you
want them to succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to succeed
as well. Win-win is abundant. It is the belief that there’s plenty of success
to go around. It’s not either you or me. It’s both of us. It’s not a matter of
who gets the biggest piece of the pie. There’s more than enough food for
everyone. It’s an all-you-can-eat buffet. Win-win always creates more. Perhaps the
most surprising benefit of thinking win-win is the good feelings it brings on. The
true test of whether or not you are thinking win-win or one of the alternatives
is how you feel. Win-lose and lose-win thinking will cloud your judgment and
fill you with negative feelings. Win-win will fill your heart with happy and
serene thoughts, it will give you confidence. Even fill you with light. Think win-win
or no deal.
Choose the right!!!!
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